i stand corrected

in an older post, i mentioned that gender doesn't exist, and that i couldn't understand it.

i feel ashamed of what i said. and i take it back.

it reminded me too much of ppl who say that they racism no longer exists and that they can't see color. so although i dont completely understand how gender (specifically MY gender) works, it doesnt make it any of a less valid thing because i have gender issues.

yep.